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Its one of THOSE days-Help!

Thu Jul 3, 2008, 3:17 PM
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Okay maybe you can't help. But listen. Maybe some useful advice.

I have 3 Deviations deleted. "For DarkLordZafiel", "Sky Dance-Miraibaby" and "Rumble with Skywarp". Just saw the notes on them. Said it was porn or against the rules on porn here. In short I'm not going to fight it. Why? Cause I've read the rules some time ago and it does say that there can be no positions. I can say that Sky Dance and Rumble with Skywarp does have the position part of that rule. So fine. I believe those same pics over over on Y! Gallery for those there.

If I knew how to make a website and the time to learn, I would seriously put up my stuff on a site and link it.

But if for any reason any of you see a dev that is questionable, please note me and talk to me. Remind me the rule about positions. Sometimes I forget due to just wanting to get an idea across the way I think it should be without worry about rules.
I may go thru my gallery a little later tonight and decide on a couple of pieces. If you see one that you think I may want to take down, please do so.
I'm only sorry to lose the comments on it.

Now for the part that came before the deletions.

I've heard others hear speak about their mothers and I sympathize with all in teh past. Now I need it.

I called my mother today. I decided to tell her that my mother-in-law and family's dog died and my father-in-law's cat died. The cat was old but an old friend but the dog got ran down by a vehicle. My brother-in-law is taking it pretty hard since he was very fond of the dog.
She was like they should get over it. Wha??? Their pets just DIED.

Then she said she talked to my grandmother (father's mother) and said she heard some things from the "grapevine". And went on to say that we say we love her to her face but tell grandma things that we don't tell her. What did I say to grandma that would make Mom so mad and upset? Really? I have no idea. When asked she just said that I was the one who talked to her and should ask her.
I called my husband Bob and the only thing he could come up with is that my uncle gave us money for gas to come down and that Grandma wanted us to stay with her. Is that it? Seems like something my mother would get upset over.

Long story on my mother cause she is just . . . demanding. She expects me to know what she wants done. Um, phone call would be nice and ASK. I've told her this and that I'm not a mind reader. I have a home, husband, work and life of my own.

She then said how busy she has been this week then said that she has been so this one week more than what most people do in a year. I said I doubt it. She replied if I wanted to bet on that. Sure I said.

Nice conversation wasn't it?
I don't know what to do about her anymore. She complains that I don't spend time with her. Next time maybe I should say "you're not pleasant a lot." My husband doesn't think she's pleasant.

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It's stupid how they let naked women stay, but any positions that can be remotely seen as sexual are pulled immediately. I feel like the rules are unclear already and now it's spreading, gah.

More of my stuff is coming down now, but now I have my forum so if nothing is done regarding Ambrosia, then DA can have it I guess...


and OMG saying "GET OVER IT" when a pet has died?! WTF how insensitive!

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Sorry about the family issues. Trust me, I know how that goes. Hope things get better for you soon.

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that cant be right, your pics were not porn, your pic sky dance showed no sexual conduct unless embracing is now a offence to none educated delinquents who have no life...

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I could help you with the website bit. it's not too hard to make a website. and there are plenty good gallery scripts out there to use.

But it is sad they delete and not warn first..

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Well that's really lame that some of your drawings were deleted.... For me a drawing can be considered porn only if the sexuall act is really explict and graphic. As far as I am concerned, none of the drawings which you've mentioned are like this.

I think that DA staff is sometimes a bit too strict about their rules....

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Well.... It's been a long time since we talked Keth hasn't it?

My advice for your mother is simple...

You only have one Mom wether she's pleasent or not I'd grin and bare it hun, it's simple she's your mom she brought you into the world heh, she can take you out of it.

But humor her realistically because she won't be around forever I also think you should sit down with her and tell her how you feel about her quarks and why you don't like coming around or communicating with her so much.

You hubby is also gonna have to grin and bare it I'm afraid.

how's he doing Btw?

Also about your art, sorry it got deleted but as you stated they were in violation.

We can always bend the rules to no end, we just can't break them. :D

Back to your mom...

coming from a guy who has no parens or family I'd give anything just to hug my mom and tell her i love her but alas i will never have that chance :(

but you do. make sure you tell her all the time wether she likes it or not because at the end of the day you will feel good about yourself and have a clear conscience. :)

"So it is written, So it shall be done"

Chin up my friend,

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I'm sorry to hear that some of your family's pets have died.

What the hell? I think the 'abuse the report button' thing is back again ._. I should write something very very explicit and rub it in their faces. LOL

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...Interesting...:paranoid:
I've been having issues with my parents as well. I've been ranting about them over in the CiDs forums since my mom reads my DA journal.

Mom wants the best for me and Tristan and thinks I should go find it. There's no such thing as the "perfect man".

Dad thinks I'm better off without a boyfriend. He thinks my BF is a freeloader and etc.

I marry for love NOT money. I rather be struggling with money and in love than rolling in it and depressed.

Talk to your mom about your feelings and let her have it. You are an adult. Sometimes you have to remind them that.

Pet issue:
Some people are like that. Or your mom doesn't give a frag about your in-laws.

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I am so not the person to give any advise on a healthy mother-daughter relationship so I'll just say *huggles* hopefully you can talk things out with her

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I am a major animal-lover, and if my current three dogs just died, I would be crushed. Absolutely crushed.

As for your mom... put her in her place.

I've had relatives like that, and I've told them plainly that I don't take that kind of shit from anyone--not even my own mom.

I had to punch my great-aunt Mary's teeth out to get my point across.

...And now she wants to leave her fortune to me when she dies.

Crazy bitch.

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